Matt Damon insists he's never called anyone a 'f****t' in his 'personal life'

The Stillwater actor has issued a lengthy statement following his admission he only 'retired' the slur 'months ago'.


Words: Jamie Tabberer; picture: Matt Damon on The Late Late Show With James Corden (CBS)

Matt Damon has released a statement following backlash to recent remarks he made in an interview about the word "f*g".

Speaking to The Times, the Stillwater actor said he used the term, which originated as a gay slur in the 1920s, in front of his family just "months ago".

“The word that my daughter calls the ‘f-slur for a homosexual’ was commonly used when I was a kid, with a different application,” Damon, 50, told the publication. “I made a joke, months ago, and got a treatise from my daughter. She left the table. I said, ‘Come on, that’s a joke! I say it in the movie Stuck on You!’

"She went to her room and wrote a very long, beautiful treatise on how that word is dangerous. I said, ‘I retire the f-slur!’ I understood.”

"I understand why my statement led many to assume the worst"

Following fierce criticism- including from out gay actor Billy Eichner - Damon addressed the controversy in a statement to Variety yesterday (2 August 2021).

The statement in full reads: “During a recent interview, I recalled a discussion I had with my daughter where I attempted to contextualize for her the progress that has been made – though by no means completed – since I was growing up in Boston and, as a child, heard the word ‘f*g’ used on the street before I knew what it even referred to.

“I explained that that word was used constantly and casually and was even a line of dialogue in a movie of mine as recently as 2003; she in turn expressed incredulity that there could ever have been a time where that word was used unthinkingly.

"To my admiration and pride, she was extremely articulate about the extent to which that word would have been painful to someone in the LGBTQ+ community regardless of how culturally normalized it was. I not only agreed with her but thrilled at her passion, values and desire for social justice.

“I have never called anyone ‘f****t’ in my personal life and this conversation with my daughter was not a personal awakening. I do not use slurs of any kind.

"I have learned that eradicating prejudice requires active movement toward justice rather than finding passive comfort in imagining myself ‘one of the good guys’. And given that open hostility against the LGBTQ+ community is still not uncommon, I understand why my statement led many to assume the worst.

"To be as clear as I can be, I stand with the LGBTQ+ community.”