Phillip Schofield comes out as gay in heartfelt Instagram post
"With the strength and support of my wife and daughters, I have been coming to terms with the fact that I am gay."
By Will Stroude
Phillip Schofield has come out as gay.
The This Morning presenter, 57, shared the news in a heartfelt post on Instagram on Friday (7 February) revealing he was coming to terms with his sexuality with “the strength and support” of his wife of 27 years, Stephanie Lowe, and their two daughters.
“You never know what’s going on in someone’s seemingly perfect life, what issues they are struggling with, or the state of their wellbeing – and so you won’t know what has been consuming me for the last few years”, Schofield wrote in a post shared to his Instagram story.
“With the strength and support of my wife and my daughters, I have been coming to terms with the fact that I am gay.
The veteran TV presenter, who presents ITV’s flagship daytime show with alongside Holly Willoughby, continued: “This is something that has caused many heart-breaking conversations at home. I have been married to Steph for nearly 27 years, and we have two beautiful grown-up daughters, Molly and Ruby.
“My family have held me so close: they have tried to cheer me up, to smother me with kindness and love, despite their own confusion. Yet still I can’t sleep and there have been some very dark moments.
“My inner conflict contrasts with an outside world that has changed so very much for the better. Today, quite rightly, being gay is a reason to celebrate and be proud.
“Yes, I am feeling pain and confusion, but that comes only from the hurt that I am causing to my family.”
He went on: “Steph has been incredible – I love her so very much. She is the kindest soul I have ever met. My girls have been astonishing in their love, hugs and encouraging words of comfort. Both mine and Steph’s entire families have stunned me with their love, instant acceptance and support. Of course they are worried about Steph, but I know they will scoop us both up.
“My friends are the best, especially Holly, who been so kind and wise – and who has hugged me as I sobbed on her shoulder. At ITV, I couldn’t hope to work with more wonderful, supportive teams.
“Every day on This Morning, I sit in awe of those we meet who have been brave and open in confronting their truth – so now it’s my turn to share mine.
“This will probably all come as something of a surprise and I understand, but only by facing this, by being honest, can I hope to find peace in my mind and a way forward.
Concluding the statement, he added: “Please be kind, especially to my family. Phillip.”